Traditional Weddings in Nigeria are an integral part of our culture There are more than 300 tribes in Nigeria, each with their own variations of wedding traditions.
When it comes to Nigerian traditional weddings, the Introduction Ceremony is the first stage, where both families come together for perhaps, the first time.
Below are five unique activities that are common in a typical Nigerian traditional wedding.
1. There is always a list
At the introduction stage, the bride’s family will present the potential groom with a list of what he will need to give to the family in order for them to accept an engagement.
The list often includes, but is not limited to, clothes, food, and other household items depending on the taste of the bride’s family
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Women from the bride’s family will assess the items presented by the groom to ensure they exactly match the list he was given, or that he has provided monetary compensation for the items he didnt include. Only when the women are satisfied will the engagement be allowed to proceed.
2. Dowry
The dowry is a token paid by the Groom on the wedding day. This is different from the list.
On the day of the traditional wedding, this token is collected from the groom. It is said that the bride is not for sale so the bulk of the money is given to the groom to take care of their daughter.
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3. No Guestlist
When it comes to Nigerian weddings, everyone Is invited, so trying to regulate the guest list is a headache Nigerian couples don’t have to endure.
Wedding hosts simply prepare for the largest number of guests possible when it comes to catering, seating, food, for an intended guest list of 250 could easily double or triple as the word gets out. After all, who wants to miss out on the opportunity to celebrate?.
4. Aso-Ebi Culture
Aso-Ebi translates to “Family Clothes” in the Yoruba language. The attire is usually decided by the bride.
The fabric is then distributed to the guests at a price to wear on the wedding day.
Aso-Ebi makes it easy to distinguish who belongs to each of the couple’s families at a glance. Also, long-time friends who are not on the bridal party can choose to join in with the Aso-Ebi as well.
5. Gifts
Guests are not supposed to attend weddings without a gift. These gifts are usually household items the couple would be needing for her new home.
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